Background to call: Fiona wants to know how best can she heal her body
FIONA
We touched on this next one before. How does one ensure that that the mind doesn’t direct the body to do more than it can handle? How can I tell when it is happening?
GUIDES
The body doing more than it can handle is a misnomer in some respects. The body is capable of moving via instruction until collapsing. The question is really: How to know when body has done enough and you do not want to miss the opportunity for maximum healing potential.
Let us describe this further: you wish to have enough life force and energy within the body to carry out day- to- day life and to facilitate levels of transformative healing. We expect this is the case for all of you coming to this site. It is likely, that in times gone by, you have simply worked the body until it was tired and the body’s self healing mechanisms were not a consideration. Many of you will know that when a system within the body is stimulated, such as the digestive system through eating, resources in the body are diverted to that process. Yet, you can still get up and move, you can eat on the go. So the body has an immense capacity for working with movement. But this is not what you wish to know about.
Ideally, you are looking to do the minimum of day to day chores; getting up, preparing food, and keeping a store of energy for healing. For those of you brought up to eat at a table, to sit at a table and let your food digest, you will understand this. There needs to be a time frame that is similar to sitting and resting and letting the body heal. It is akin to basking in the sun. Or enjoying the breeze on your skin.
For those not brought up in a home where body functions and giving body functions time was valued, and indeed indoctrinated, you will need to learn this if you wish your body to heal to its best capacity. This is a fine line. For those who were brought up to give your body time to digest its food, understand as you need to give your body time to heal. You can formalise this, you can make this your healing time.
Many of you will do this anyway. Give yourself time. Perhaps life of old has stopped for you now. Perhaps you have given up work, like Fiona, and the focus is on healing. If the focus is on healing, then let the focus be on healing. If you focus on healing, and run around, and stress, and treat your healings, approaches to healings, and mechanisms for healing, (such as Dr's appointments, complementary approaches, perhaps meditations or book reading etc), you must give this to yourself fully; otherwise it becomes a chore.
This is a great subject and is not just for those who have a diagnosis or have had a diagnosis or know someone with a diagnosis. It is giving you the opportunity to understand that you can give yourself what you need. But you need to give it to yourself. Kidding yourself that you are doing something when the mindset hasn’t changed is not really giving yourself something at all. That is the theory.
What do we mean by in practice? For those of you who have been brought up with giving the body time and space for healing, this is wonderful. Continue to do this. Indulge in this. Practically give yourself time and space to pursue that which has a positive, relaxing effect on you, guilt free, stress free, without worry, without concern.
For those of you for whom that is not possible- perhaps it is not possible for you to give up work, perhaps your worldly commitments make it impossible for you to change much of life, you may have children, you may have others who are dependent upon you. Yet, you still need to make space to heal. This can be done. This can be taken in 5 minutes.
How do you do this?
You sit. You sit in your car or in a form of transport, even in the bathroom. You sit and open up to healing. Breathe in healing. Giving yourself space and time to heal. Five minutes. Take this throughout the day. This cannot be given as another chore. This must be taken and experienced as something positive.
How?
You simply sit, have your eyes open or shut, and have a thought to open up the body’s systems to healing. Take a deep breath and trust that your body is now healing. There are forces in this world who may wish to help and should you wish you may call upon them.
Time these 5 minutes and stay as positive, open and receptive to healing as you can. Allow these to be the equivalent in feeling terms in as basking in the sun or the breeze on your skin. Then return back to day- to-day life.
Do you have any further questions on this, Fiona?
FIONA
Could you elaborate on the bit about, “There are forces out there that will help you heal?”
GUIDES
Yes, whatever your framework is, that is beyond you, that is benevolent, call upon it. Your framework is your belief system.
FIONA
Can someone feel, within these 5 minutes, the healing taking place within their body?
GUIDES
Yes, trusting. You not be able to feel a change but you can trust a change is occurring. E.g. some may trust the digestive process others may need a gaseous exchange to experience the digestive process. But it is still happening whether you feel it or not. For healing- especially with a diagnosis, such as one you or someone you know may have- trust is crucial. You must trust that the body is healing. For it is. It is always in a state of repair. But for some of you, you have lost the faith in that. You have lost faith in the body. You think your body has turned against you. Take this time and stimulate the body’s healing mechanisms. This can be done with a thought and asking for help to do this, should your framework allow this for you.
Wednesday, 7 July 2010
Friday, 18 June 2010
7: Who are these spirit guides ?
Background to call: Fiona has linked up with Zoe who is channelling the answers to Fiona's questions.
FIONA
Who are you and where are you ?
GUIDES
We are a collective spiritual force, a force for good. Some people call us their angels or guides. In other spheres, working with other groups, we have given ourselves a name. We are more than one individual.
We are a collective that wish to deliver understanding to those in need at this time. There is an opportunity for some of you to grow spiritually and evolve. We wish to show some of you how to do this.
Often, you may be brought to us, and material such as this, through great tragedy in life. Think of us as your guiding light. We will leave it at that.
FIONA
But where are you?
GUIDES
In the hearts and minds of men. We are like a force that exists in, throughout and beyond the hearts and minds of men. We are like an intelligence that defies time, and gravity, and space, and form. We are effectively eternal. We exist within all of you, and can be connected to, via all of you. Should you wish to speak to us directly, and you can, go within. We are not outside your body we are inside.
FIONA
Who are you and where are you ?
GUIDES
We are a collective spiritual force, a force for good. Some people call us their angels or guides. In other spheres, working with other groups, we have given ourselves a name. We are more than one individual.
We are a collective that wish to deliver understanding to those in need at this time. There is an opportunity for some of you to grow spiritually and evolve. We wish to show some of you how to do this.
Often, you may be brought to us, and material such as this, through great tragedy in life. Think of us as your guiding light. We will leave it at that.
FIONA
But where are you?
GUIDES
In the hearts and minds of men. We are like a force that exists in, throughout and beyond the hearts and minds of men. We are like an intelligence that defies time, and gravity, and space, and form. We are effectively eternal. We exist within all of you, and can be connected to, via all of you. Should you wish to speak to us directly, and you can, go within. We are not outside your body we are inside.
Tuesday, 1 June 2010
6: Your body did not do this to you
Background to call: Fiona is feeling ill
FIONA: WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO START TO TRUST YOUR BODY AGAIN AFTER A DIAGNOSIS OF CANCER? MANY PEOPLE FEEL THEY CANNOT TRUST THEIR BODIES. THEY FEEL THEY HAVE NO CONTROL OVER THEIR BODIES AND HAVE BEEN BETRAYED BY THEIR BODIES.
GUIDES: Yes, this is a very relevant question.
It is often the case that their body has done this to them. Their body has taken away life from them. What they fail to understand is that they had taken away life from themselves and the body simply responded.
Understand, all of you who are living with the name cancer or who are waiting for a period of time to pass until you don’t need to use it anymore. Understand that the body did not let you down; neither did you deliberately chose cancer.
Sometimes within the alternative movement you are told that, “you created it yourself”. Whilst your body responded to your relationship with your life, we are not sure if we have ever experienced an individual who sat down and deliberately manifested cancer cells to overrun their immune system and create a mass. So understand that the body didn’t let you down. There was something happening in your life to the point of diagnosis and perhaps to this point today, that opened up the mechanism for exit.
With this knowledge understand that you can now support your body, for it is only your body that can rid itself of this. It may be able to do so if it not too far down the track to the connection with exit. How far down are you on that connection to exit? Only you can know that. Your Drs may give you insight based on what they have seen with other people but only you can know how alive you are. Even if you are feeling alive the connection to exit may still be in place for you for it has been firmly established and cannot be overwritten. But until you know that, live and enjoy life.
Your body did not do this to you and you did not do this to your body with deliberate intention. However, the manifestation to the exit did occur. This usually happens for there has been a lack of connection to life. Very occasionally the connection to exit can occur because spiritually your time has come. A time will come for all of you. We hope this work survives its co-creators but it will come for them too.
We certainly do not do this to your bodies. Sometimes you blame God: “God did this to me”. Or, God is a real “bleep” because he won’t take this away. Or, where are my angels now that I am dying? Your angels now are always with you, including when you are dying.
So, understand that the body requires care and attention. The more fearful you are of the body, the more we urge you to love your body; the more you continue to fear and resent your body, the more you will disconnect from the reality of life which is - you are alive within your body. Do whatever it takes for you to begin to love your body again and by this we do not mean lose weight or gain weight. We mean love. It is not about the form of the body or what the form represents to those around you or what you believe the form means because of standards that others, including your society. Love yourself for who you are. Care for your body. The more you are fearful, the more you must work at this. The greater the journey will be for you to love yourself once more.
You cannot heal and disrespect your body at the same time. Healing must come via the physical. It can be positively influenced via the mind and via the spirit but its mechanisms must work via the cellular functioning’s of the body. You cannot do this by hating and resenting your body. So, your body did something that you didn’t consciously wish it to do; it is still giving you an opportunity to wake up. So, wake up and begin loving your body. Whatever this means. We have seen that for many this means taking up forms of dance, forms of creative expression via the body and we support this. We would also see a greater appreciation for the role of sexuality in your body. Genuine, authentic, feel good sexuality in your body.
What this is not to be is a drive to force the body back to health, devoid of love, such as we see. We see this on juice diets. “This will make you healthy, body; I don’t care if you don’t like it, body (i.e. it doesn’t taste good), you‘re having it”. That is not love. Nurture and nourish your body, with love. This is more powerful than any antioxidant you can put into your system. Understand this. Ideally, do both. When the body is in a state that has formed a mass, it is out of balance. Do what you have to do to bring it back into balance, with love. The prescription is love at the top and juice diets at the bottom, if at all.
Have we answered your question?
FIONA: YES, THANK YOU. I AM NOT GOING TO ASK ANYMORE QUESTIONS TODAY AS WE HAVE COVERED A LOT.
GUIDES: Yes, we agree. Your system has had enough. Recognise that you will be tired today, Fiona, for your system is out of balance and has been exposed to us!
FIONA: WHAT SHOULD I DO TO BRING IT BACK INTO BALANCE?
GUIDES: Rest, all you need is rest. You have been exerting yourself physically more than you are capable of doing. Do not allow the mind to do more than the body is able to handle.
You understand this? We will speak about this next time, this is very important. This is why many of you manifest a mechanism to exit. The body becomes so disengaged from the desires and the driving force of the mind. So learn the lesson with the virus and who knows maybe the cells with the “c” word will take care of themselves.
FIONA: IS THAT SUPPOSED TO TELL ME THAT I STILL HAVE NAUGHTY CELLS IN MY BODY?!
GUIDES: No, we are laughing at this. We knew this came next. It is our joke. You always have cells of these in the body.
FIONA: THAT IS TRUE
GUIDES: Use this part of the conversation on the blog. We leave you now. Goodbye and thank you.
FIONA: SEE YOU NEXT TIME
GUIDES: Yes, we won’t go anywhere.
FIONA: WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO START TO TRUST YOUR BODY AGAIN AFTER A DIAGNOSIS OF CANCER? MANY PEOPLE FEEL THEY CANNOT TRUST THEIR BODIES. THEY FEEL THEY HAVE NO CONTROL OVER THEIR BODIES AND HAVE BEEN BETRAYED BY THEIR BODIES.
GUIDES: Yes, this is a very relevant question.
It is often the case that their body has done this to them. Their body has taken away life from them. What they fail to understand is that they had taken away life from themselves and the body simply responded.
Understand, all of you who are living with the name cancer or who are waiting for a period of time to pass until you don’t need to use it anymore. Understand that the body did not let you down; neither did you deliberately chose cancer.
Sometimes within the alternative movement you are told that, “you created it yourself”. Whilst your body responded to your relationship with your life, we are not sure if we have ever experienced an individual who sat down and deliberately manifested cancer cells to overrun their immune system and create a mass. So understand that the body didn’t let you down. There was something happening in your life to the point of diagnosis and perhaps to this point today, that opened up the mechanism for exit.
With this knowledge understand that you can now support your body, for it is only your body that can rid itself of this. It may be able to do so if it not too far down the track to the connection with exit. How far down are you on that connection to exit? Only you can know that. Your Drs may give you insight based on what they have seen with other people but only you can know how alive you are. Even if you are feeling alive the connection to exit may still be in place for you for it has been firmly established and cannot be overwritten. But until you know that, live and enjoy life.
Your body did not do this to you and you did not do this to your body with deliberate intention. However, the manifestation to the exit did occur. This usually happens for there has been a lack of connection to life. Very occasionally the connection to exit can occur because spiritually your time has come. A time will come for all of you. We hope this work survives its co-creators but it will come for them too.
We certainly do not do this to your bodies. Sometimes you blame God: “God did this to me”. Or, God is a real “bleep” because he won’t take this away. Or, where are my angels now that I am dying? Your angels now are always with you, including when you are dying.
So, understand that the body requires care and attention. The more fearful you are of the body, the more we urge you to love your body; the more you continue to fear and resent your body, the more you will disconnect from the reality of life which is - you are alive within your body. Do whatever it takes for you to begin to love your body again and by this we do not mean lose weight or gain weight. We mean love. It is not about the form of the body or what the form represents to those around you or what you believe the form means because of standards that others, including your society. Love yourself for who you are. Care for your body. The more you are fearful, the more you must work at this. The greater the journey will be for you to love yourself once more.
You cannot heal and disrespect your body at the same time. Healing must come via the physical. It can be positively influenced via the mind and via the spirit but its mechanisms must work via the cellular functioning’s of the body. You cannot do this by hating and resenting your body. So, your body did something that you didn’t consciously wish it to do; it is still giving you an opportunity to wake up. So, wake up and begin loving your body. Whatever this means. We have seen that for many this means taking up forms of dance, forms of creative expression via the body and we support this. We would also see a greater appreciation for the role of sexuality in your body. Genuine, authentic, feel good sexuality in your body.
What this is not to be is a drive to force the body back to health, devoid of love, such as we see. We see this on juice diets. “This will make you healthy, body; I don’t care if you don’t like it, body (i.e. it doesn’t taste good), you‘re having it”. That is not love. Nurture and nourish your body, with love. This is more powerful than any antioxidant you can put into your system. Understand this. Ideally, do both. When the body is in a state that has formed a mass, it is out of balance. Do what you have to do to bring it back into balance, with love. The prescription is love at the top and juice diets at the bottom, if at all.
Have we answered your question?
FIONA: YES, THANK YOU. I AM NOT GOING TO ASK ANYMORE QUESTIONS TODAY AS WE HAVE COVERED A LOT.
GUIDES: Yes, we agree. Your system has had enough. Recognise that you will be tired today, Fiona, for your system is out of balance and has been exposed to us!
FIONA: WHAT SHOULD I DO TO BRING IT BACK INTO BALANCE?
GUIDES: Rest, all you need is rest. You have been exerting yourself physically more than you are capable of doing. Do not allow the mind to do more than the body is able to handle.
You understand this? We will speak about this next time, this is very important. This is why many of you manifest a mechanism to exit. The body becomes so disengaged from the desires and the driving force of the mind. So learn the lesson with the virus and who knows maybe the cells with the “c” word will take care of themselves.
FIONA: IS THAT SUPPOSED TO TELL ME THAT I STILL HAVE NAUGHTY CELLS IN MY BODY?!
GUIDES: No, we are laughing at this. We knew this came next. It is our joke. You always have cells of these in the body.
FIONA: THAT IS TRUE
GUIDES: Use this part of the conversation on the blog. We leave you now. Goodbye and thank you.
FIONA: SEE YOU NEXT TIME
GUIDES: Yes, we won’t go anywhere.
Tuesday, 27 April 2010
Medical tests and Dr's appointments
FIONA: WHAT ABOUT OTHER FEARS CONNECTED TO LIVING, SUCH AS ONCOLOGIST APPOINTMENTS WHICH ARE OFTEN VERY FEARFUL, PARTICULARLY IF YOU ARE EXPECTING TEST RESULTS?
GUIDES: We find this ironic, that the weight of the world is given to one person to tell you, when the reality is already within your own body. Recognise this: there is nothing that someone can tell you that you that you are not already living with. You are the truth of your health. Another that has access to equipment that can measure things, that can tell you how things stack against another, simply has insight on this issue. These people, most of them, who do this work- and who would wish to do this work? Let us think about it. Who would wish to work with people with cancer? Have compassion for the people who throughout their day may not know who they have to give their life or death diagnosis to.
You are the one who has the power. You are the one who has the power to connect to you. You are the one who inhabits the body together with the mass that you may be about to hear about. You are not separate in any way yet there is great fear about this ‘thing’ that lives in you as if it is a parasite. Really, this is the mechanism to take you to your exit. That is all it is.
If you don’t like the fact that the mechanism to take you to your exit has kicked off, connect to the opposite side, which is life. There are times in life where you are given bad news or bad life events happen to you; by ‘bad’ we mean that which you wouldn’t choose consciously. But recognise this is part of the process of learning to be a happy, healthy, balanced human being. You have many, many sayings for this: rolling with punches is one we particularly like. We like it for you can come back from punches and it can feel like a punch and you can simply roll. Why not roll from a punch? It is better than having a bleeding nose! We jest on this. Simply understand that you are in control of your health and this situation.
This person who chooses to do this for a living has an infinite capacity for the suffering of man. No joy is ever taken from giving information such as, ‘we think this is terminal’. So have understanding of self, understanding that, for whatever reason that you may or may not be aware of, the mechanism to the exit has been activated. You can do what you choose to do to take you back to life.
Remember that you have not exited yet and for as long as there is life within, you are life itself, so live. These people have no power over you and in many ways have one of the best and the worst jobs in the world; they get to explore the depth of humanity.
FIONA: YOU SAID THAT THESE DRS HAVE NO POWER OVER YOU. HOWEVER, THERE IS OFTEN A VERY STRONGLY PERCEIVED NOTION OF POWER OVER THE PATEINT, IN TERMS OF THE DRS PROGNOSIS. CAN YOU TALK ABOUT DRS VIEWS AND HOW THEY MAY OR MAY NOT BE FACTUAL?
GUIDES: The best thing about cancer is that it shouts loudest of all: wake up! There are other diagnoses such as AIDs where currently there is no wake up call that can be chosen. Their call is simply ‘wake up’ and know that you are on your way to the exit. Cancer is not known. The body, however, will present itself to a Dr at some stage of manifestation towards the exit. The closer to the exit, the more serious the words that might be used, the word ‘terminal’ might be used. This is your reality, not the Drs.
The Drs simply impart an opinion that is prevalent and from their perspective it would be insane to ignore it. This is the position of power you are asking about. From their perspective, as a profession, it would be insane to ignore a chance to recover. Their entire profession is geared up to keep you alive. So, if they believe that you may respond to a treatment they will think it is insane that you may not chose it. For they have chosen to align their lives with keeping you alive. This is the power you think of; they are on, for most of the time, your side. Yet because they give you the bad news, because the deliver the wake up call, from yourself to you, you often fail to recognise them. And you fail to recognise them as human beings.
After all, all they do is read out a piece of paper or information from a computer screen. And you trade yourself for that information. Do you wish to take this further?
FIONA: YES, WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO STAY CONNECTED TO LIVING?
GUIDES: Love the Dr. Understand that their Dr simply gives them verbal information about what is happening in them. The Dr has no power over them. So, simply love and feel compassionate for the person who has to tell you whether you are about to have a good day or a bad day, independently of you, it seems, at times. They understand their position of power and sometimes they can have a bad day.
FIONA: IF, AFTER SUCH A MEETING IF YOU DON’T FEEL IN YOUR POWER, WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO CONNECT BACK TO LIFE?
GUIDES: This will be different for every individual. What ‘life’ means to an individual is different from one to the next. What ‘life’ means to an individual at one time can be different from the next time. So there is time where the best thing in the world can feel like a summer day with a book and there is another time where the best thing in the world can be snow and a fire. Sometimes, the best thing in the world can be all of your friends, there are times when it can be none of your friends.
Connect with who you are at that time and give yourself what it is you need. Recognise though, that if you have opened the mechanism to exit, you have not been giving yourself what you need for a sustained time. So, it will not be the first chocolate bar, or holiday, or meaningful romance, or 6 kilos that you've put on that will re-establish your connection to life and disable the mechanism to the exit. There must be at least as many connections to life, at least, as there was to the mechanism that kicked off the exit. Does this make sense?
FIONA: YES
GUIDES: Many give up on this and think: I’ll do this, I’ll do this, and I’ll do this. Oh look, the Drs told me that I’m still dying. The reality is that you are dying anyway. You only have one exit. But you can be in charge of the quality of how you live while you are alive and this may be enough to disable the mechanism towards the exit.
GUIDES: We find this ironic, that the weight of the world is given to one person to tell you, when the reality is already within your own body. Recognise this: there is nothing that someone can tell you that you that you are not already living with. You are the truth of your health. Another that has access to equipment that can measure things, that can tell you how things stack against another, simply has insight on this issue. These people, most of them, who do this work- and who would wish to do this work? Let us think about it. Who would wish to work with people with cancer? Have compassion for the people who throughout their day may not know who they have to give their life or death diagnosis to.
You are the one who has the power. You are the one who has the power to connect to you. You are the one who inhabits the body together with the mass that you may be about to hear about. You are not separate in any way yet there is great fear about this ‘thing’ that lives in you as if it is a parasite. Really, this is the mechanism to take you to your exit. That is all it is.
If you don’t like the fact that the mechanism to take you to your exit has kicked off, connect to the opposite side, which is life. There are times in life where you are given bad news or bad life events happen to you; by ‘bad’ we mean that which you wouldn’t choose consciously. But recognise this is part of the process of learning to be a happy, healthy, balanced human being. You have many, many sayings for this: rolling with punches is one we particularly like. We like it for you can come back from punches and it can feel like a punch and you can simply roll. Why not roll from a punch? It is better than having a bleeding nose! We jest on this. Simply understand that you are in control of your health and this situation.
This person who chooses to do this for a living has an infinite capacity for the suffering of man. No joy is ever taken from giving information such as, ‘we think this is terminal’. So have understanding of self, understanding that, for whatever reason that you may or may not be aware of, the mechanism to the exit has been activated. You can do what you choose to do to take you back to life.
Remember that you have not exited yet and for as long as there is life within, you are life itself, so live. These people have no power over you and in many ways have one of the best and the worst jobs in the world; they get to explore the depth of humanity.
FIONA: YOU SAID THAT THESE DRS HAVE NO POWER OVER YOU. HOWEVER, THERE IS OFTEN A VERY STRONGLY PERCEIVED NOTION OF POWER OVER THE PATEINT, IN TERMS OF THE DRS PROGNOSIS. CAN YOU TALK ABOUT DRS VIEWS AND HOW THEY MAY OR MAY NOT BE FACTUAL?
GUIDES: The best thing about cancer is that it shouts loudest of all: wake up! There are other diagnoses such as AIDs where currently there is no wake up call that can be chosen. Their call is simply ‘wake up’ and know that you are on your way to the exit. Cancer is not known. The body, however, will present itself to a Dr at some stage of manifestation towards the exit. The closer to the exit, the more serious the words that might be used, the word ‘terminal’ might be used. This is your reality, not the Drs.
The Drs simply impart an opinion that is prevalent and from their perspective it would be insane to ignore it. This is the position of power you are asking about. From their perspective, as a profession, it would be insane to ignore a chance to recover. Their entire profession is geared up to keep you alive. So, if they believe that you may respond to a treatment they will think it is insane that you may not chose it. For they have chosen to align their lives with keeping you alive. This is the power you think of; they are on, for most of the time, your side. Yet because they give you the bad news, because the deliver the wake up call, from yourself to you, you often fail to recognise them. And you fail to recognise them as human beings.
After all, all they do is read out a piece of paper or information from a computer screen. And you trade yourself for that information. Do you wish to take this further?
FIONA: YES, WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO STAY CONNECTED TO LIVING?
GUIDES: Love the Dr. Understand that their Dr simply gives them verbal information about what is happening in them. The Dr has no power over them. So, simply love and feel compassionate for the person who has to tell you whether you are about to have a good day or a bad day, independently of you, it seems, at times. They understand their position of power and sometimes they can have a bad day.
FIONA: IF, AFTER SUCH A MEETING IF YOU DON’T FEEL IN YOUR POWER, WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO CONNECT BACK TO LIFE?
GUIDES: This will be different for every individual. What ‘life’ means to an individual is different from one to the next. What ‘life’ means to an individual at one time can be different from the next time. So there is time where the best thing in the world can feel like a summer day with a book and there is another time where the best thing in the world can be snow and a fire. Sometimes, the best thing in the world can be all of your friends, there are times when it can be none of your friends.
Connect with who you are at that time and give yourself what it is you need. Recognise though, that if you have opened the mechanism to exit, you have not been giving yourself what you need for a sustained time. So, it will not be the first chocolate bar, or holiday, or meaningful romance, or 6 kilos that you've put on that will re-establish your connection to life and disable the mechanism to the exit. There must be at least as many connections to life, at least, as there was to the mechanism that kicked off the exit. Does this make sense?
FIONA: YES
GUIDES: Many give up on this and think: I’ll do this, I’ll do this, and I’ll do this. Oh look, the Drs told me that I’m still dying. The reality is that you are dying anyway. You only have one exit. But you can be in charge of the quality of how you live while you are alive and this may be enough to disable the mechanism towards the exit.
Thursday, 25 February 2010
4: Fear of living and dying
FIONA: WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO OVERCOME THE FEAR OF LIFE?
GUIDES: Live. How do you live? This is the best question you have asked us so far, Fiona. Do you know that many of you do not know how to live? What life is equated with, is an automatic functioning which feels like a death of the spirit. It is an alarm clock in the morning, a shower followed by something to eat, followed by a hard day at the office, followed by television, alcohol and then rest. This is life of a sort but living in its fullest extent is the enfoldment of self into the physical environment. This can happen through enjoyment but most importantly this can happen through connection to everything in life.
Zoë has just written about the importance of being conscious through your domestic life. This is what we mean by this. It means switching off autopilot. Hear your alarm; if you don’t like it choose another one. If you hate it, go to bed earlier so you can wake without one. It is about engaging with everything that is before you and assessing: Can I, in my entirety, exist with this? This is why we say, if you do not like your alarm call get another one. Why should you be woken by an alarming sound that instils fear and dread into you when you could be woken up with birdsong? But this is not something people think about.
Similarly, be aware of everything you choose to expose yourself to. You are a sensory being. You have your five senses. Yet many people expose themselves to sensory material that is fashionable rather than allows the spirit to unfold and enjoy itself in. There was once a movement, backed by us for obvious reasons that encouraged the enfoldment of spirit through love, beauty and truth. We think it is time for this again.
Give us some specifics, Fiona, and we’ll give you some suggestions. We feel our answer is very clear from our perspective but perhaps not for those who will find it difficult to live because they may never have done it.
FIONA: I WILL GIVE YOU SOME SPECIFIC EXAMPLES OF THINGS WHICH PEOPLE WHO HAVE HAD A DIAGNOSIS OF CANCER MAY FIND DIFFICULT. IN WHICH PARTICULAR FEARS OF LIVING MAY BE TRIGGERED.
THE FIRST ONE IS A FEAR OF TRAVELLINGSOMEWHERE OR GOING ON HOLIDAY SOMEWHERE NEW. YOU DON’T KNOW THE ENVIRONMENT, OR WHETHER THERE IS ACCESS TO MEDICAL TREATMENT, OR WHAT THE FOOD IS LIKE, YOU DON’T KNOW THE ACCOMODATION OR WEATHER. YOU DON’T KNOW HOW YOUR BODY WILL RESPOND.
GUIDES: Let’s answer one by one.
You need to be aware that many people without cancer do not travel because of all of these fears. What does cancer mean to all of these fears? Nothing. What does it give to all of these fears? More fear. So, you need to ask yourself: what is important to me, living or being in fear? And you can choose that living to you means managing risks, such as healthcare. Management of risk will be different from one individual to another. One individual may think it is perfectly ok to go and explore their dream holiday in the jungles of Peru; this will be a way of for them to fulfil a lifelong dream. For another, managing risk will be going to a country such as Germany that is known for its cancer treatment. For another, it will mean going to the garden beside the hospital just in case anything happens.
Now, be mindful at all times, regardless of the fear: Where is my connection to life with this fear? The nature of fear is always to take the connection of life away. This is what fear does. It removes you from your immediate environment and creates another reality that, most often, does not exist. There is really only the onslaught of violence that requires the level of fear in the body that warrants an affirmation in life. That is what fear was originally designed to do: to take you away, to preserve your life, to make you run. If you wanted to go, then you could stand before that sabre tooth tiger. Nowadays, it is different.
Nowadays, the levels of perpetual fear in life create the equivalent of standing before the sabre tooth tiger and can create a situation that manifests illness or disease and that maybe a mass diagnosed as cancer.
Have we answered this? Let’s use you for this. Where would you like to go, Fiona? What would you like to do?
FIONA: I’D LIKE TO GO TO BRAZIL, THE CARRIBEAN, OR INDIA.
GUIDES: Which is the country that is best for you? Which is the country that is best for your cancer?
FIONA: I DON’T KNOW
GUIDES: We are glad you said that because we wouldn’t have liked an answer for your cancer for it would be a living reality all of its own rather than part of you.
If you have three countries you would like to explore, ask yourself , which, at this time, is the most life affirming. What do we mean by that? Which fills me with the most excitement? Excitement is a life affirming connection.
This can also be terrifying so, for example, if you have only travelled to your small town and suddenly you move to the big city this can be terrifying but if it is something you have always wanted to do then it is a good thing to experience. You can always go somewhere and decide to never do that again. You are not going to travel to a country and suddenly this country will manifest more cancer for you; only you can do that. So make decisions based on what will connect you more to yourself which is life and life which is also yourself, at any time.
FIONA: SOUNDS GOOD.
GUIDES: Live. How do you live? This is the best question you have asked us so far, Fiona. Do you know that many of you do not know how to live? What life is equated with, is an automatic functioning which feels like a death of the spirit. It is an alarm clock in the morning, a shower followed by something to eat, followed by a hard day at the office, followed by television, alcohol and then rest. This is life of a sort but living in its fullest extent is the enfoldment of self into the physical environment. This can happen through enjoyment but most importantly this can happen through connection to everything in life.
Zoë has just written about the importance of being conscious through your domestic life. This is what we mean by this. It means switching off autopilot. Hear your alarm; if you don’t like it choose another one. If you hate it, go to bed earlier so you can wake without one. It is about engaging with everything that is before you and assessing: Can I, in my entirety, exist with this? This is why we say, if you do not like your alarm call get another one. Why should you be woken by an alarming sound that instils fear and dread into you when you could be woken up with birdsong? But this is not something people think about.
Similarly, be aware of everything you choose to expose yourself to. You are a sensory being. You have your five senses. Yet many people expose themselves to sensory material that is fashionable rather than allows the spirit to unfold and enjoy itself in. There was once a movement, backed by us for obvious reasons that encouraged the enfoldment of spirit through love, beauty and truth. We think it is time for this again.
Give us some specifics, Fiona, and we’ll give you some suggestions. We feel our answer is very clear from our perspective but perhaps not for those who will find it difficult to live because they may never have done it.
FIONA: I WILL GIVE YOU SOME SPECIFIC EXAMPLES OF THINGS WHICH PEOPLE WHO HAVE HAD A DIAGNOSIS OF CANCER MAY FIND DIFFICULT. IN WHICH PARTICULAR FEARS OF LIVING MAY BE TRIGGERED.
THE FIRST ONE IS A FEAR OF TRAVELLINGSOMEWHERE OR GOING ON HOLIDAY SOMEWHERE NEW. YOU DON’T KNOW THE ENVIRONMENT, OR WHETHER THERE IS ACCESS TO MEDICAL TREATMENT, OR WHAT THE FOOD IS LIKE, YOU DON’T KNOW THE ACCOMODATION OR WEATHER. YOU DON’T KNOW HOW YOUR BODY WILL RESPOND.
GUIDES: Let’s answer one by one.
You need to be aware that many people without cancer do not travel because of all of these fears. What does cancer mean to all of these fears? Nothing. What does it give to all of these fears? More fear. So, you need to ask yourself: what is important to me, living or being in fear? And you can choose that living to you means managing risks, such as healthcare. Management of risk will be different from one individual to another. One individual may think it is perfectly ok to go and explore their dream holiday in the jungles of Peru; this will be a way of for them to fulfil a lifelong dream. For another, managing risk will be going to a country such as Germany that is known for its cancer treatment. For another, it will mean going to the garden beside the hospital just in case anything happens.
Now, be mindful at all times, regardless of the fear: Where is my connection to life with this fear? The nature of fear is always to take the connection of life away. This is what fear does. It removes you from your immediate environment and creates another reality that, most often, does not exist. There is really only the onslaught of violence that requires the level of fear in the body that warrants an affirmation in life. That is what fear was originally designed to do: to take you away, to preserve your life, to make you run. If you wanted to go, then you could stand before that sabre tooth tiger. Nowadays, it is different.
Nowadays, the levels of perpetual fear in life create the equivalent of standing before the sabre tooth tiger and can create a situation that manifests illness or disease and that maybe a mass diagnosed as cancer.
Have we answered this? Let’s use you for this. Where would you like to go, Fiona? What would you like to do?
FIONA: I’D LIKE TO GO TO BRAZIL, THE CARRIBEAN, OR INDIA.
GUIDES: Which is the country that is best for you? Which is the country that is best for your cancer?
FIONA: I DON’T KNOW
GUIDES: We are glad you said that because we wouldn’t have liked an answer for your cancer for it would be a living reality all of its own rather than part of you.
If you have three countries you would like to explore, ask yourself , which, at this time, is the most life affirming. What do we mean by that? Which fills me with the most excitement? Excitement is a life affirming connection.
This can also be terrifying so, for example, if you have only travelled to your small town and suddenly you move to the big city this can be terrifying but if it is something you have always wanted to do then it is a good thing to experience. You can always go somewhere and decide to never do that again. You are not going to travel to a country and suddenly this country will manifest more cancer for you; only you can do that. So make decisions based on what will connect you more to yourself which is life and life which is also yourself, at any time.
FIONA: SOUNDS GOOD.
Monday, 14 December 2009
3: Negative emotions and fear
Background to the call: Fiona has bad cough and is feeling congested in the chest.
GUIDES: Fiona, have you enjoyed this process so far?
FIONA: YES
GUIDES: Have you felt the effects of working with our words?
FIONA: YES, I HAVE. IT HAS MADE ME FEEL GOOD.
GUIDES: This is good. This is what we are looking for through this project, the information but also the knowledge of no separation between you in your form and us in our form. To an extent we are like a continuum and the support that can be received from us is great. We will help alleviate your symptoms for now. Understand that the body needs time to recharge. You have pushed yourself a little bit hence your virus.
Not all models see virus’s as necessary evils, some see them as good vehicles for cleansing, so choose to take your virus as a cleansing. We have enjoyed watching you work with this material and enjoyed feeling your feeling response. We are pleased with it and we wish to proceed. Do you have a question for us today?
FIONA: DOES ALL PHYSICAL ILLNESS START WITH NEGATIVE EMOTIONS?
This is a very good question. Yes and no. Yes, in terms of the body has become imbalanced and the body is geared up, as we have spoken before, to maintain levels of balance, therefore levels of health. However, sometimes spiritually there can be a misunderstanding. There can be a time, a lesson that can be learned in a specific moment and one of the ways to stop physical life is with an illness. We have situations where someone can be wishing a situation to happen that we might call a spiritual matter; such as, time for themselves, opportunities to become happier. The way they choose to give this to themselves is through the vehicle of illness. This is not necessarily caused by negative emotions; this is caused by a willingness to take a jump to the next sphere or phase of being. Therefore, it can become an opportunity to stop, assess and move forward. You have experienced this at times, many alive have experienced this, and Zoë has experienced this. So illness is not always brought on through negative states. It can be brought on to bring forward a positive state.
This is what we hope this information will provide. It will provide people with information. Understand that, for as long as you are alive, wake up to living. Give yourself what you need and perhaps you can come back to life fully without your diagnosis. Of course this is only a partial truth, for all of you will come and meet your spiritual friends after a time.
So, it would be better to state that negative emotions cause difficulties for the body to recover from. They make the system heavy, they can change the physiological functioning’s of the body and over time this can create difficulties for the body in maintaining health. Work has been done to show that specific negative emotions over time can lead to specific illnesses. This gives you an indication of the effect of negative thinking on your body. All of you, however, understand that you just need to have a bad day and see how your body feels to see the effects of mind on the body.
Similarly, you just need to hear good news to understand the effects on the body; for it is often expressed through physical exhilaration such as a hop and a skip. From a perspective of illness, where does illness arise? We have been asked the question before. Does illness arise from a breakdown between spirit and individual? This is far broader and, therefore, more correct than, “Does all illness arise from negative emotions?” For illness can arise as a gift to self. Does this make sense?
Let us take this a little bit further and say that: if you simply wake up to life and wake up to your needs and give yourself those, you will not need illness as a vehicle, even for soul progression. Let us take your question.
FIONA: YOU MENTIONED THAT SPECIFIC EMOTIONS CAN LEAD TO ILLNESS. WHAT IS, IN PARTICULAR, THE ROLE OF FEAR?
GUIDES: Fear! Oh! Fear and cancer. Fear of living. What is it like to be fearful and living? What are its consequences? The irony is that for many people they are fearful of living. The consequence to life is death yet most people who are fearful of living are actually fearful of death.
The misunderstanding is that there are levels of death. The physical death that you all will experience and that many of you are fearful of, we prefer to call exiting, as we have explained before. But fear of death can be fear of death of form, of status, of job, of partner, of wealth, of funding, of size, we could go on. This fear of death of form in the physical world leads to a fear of life. We know this is a pertinent question for you, Fiona. But it is also a question that everyone who is given the diagnosis of cancer should ask themselves. For being fearful of life opens up the connection to exit.
So, what is being fearful of forms of life? It is simply an expression of being devoid of an authentic connection to self. For if you are fearful of losing something which is outside of yourself e.g. many people of fearful of losing their homes, their jobs. What happens if someone does lose their home? The mind equates this loss with death yet the body will not die. The mind equates this fear of losing career with death yet the body will not die. However, a connection is opened up for effectively it is what you are choosing. Put enough fears together and you will affect your functioning. The body will become heightened, unable to relax, unable to have pleasure for itself. When this happens, over time the body will become tired. Whilst this is an experience that the body can have, it is meant for short periods of time only.
This is why we say that the way that you live now, many of you, as a species, is different from the way you were designed to be. Many take that to understand that their diet is different or that they put sprays or pharmaceuticals into their bodies. But really the body is designed to be healthy and relaxed; healthy in relaxation, healthy in its ability to process substances that are not entirely healthful. You weren’t also meant to eat stone, yet your ancestors did it. There are many cases of what has been consumed in the past or the present that the body was not designed for yet the body copes marvellously.
It is a matter of the body in heightened states for periods of time that is was not designed for, therefore it is unable to return to its balance. This is what perpetual states of fear produce within the body. The states start off as more minor imbalances; more minor in that they may affect the digestive organs, they may affect the skin, certainly the cognitive functioning and the ability to hold focus. It takes a lot to manifest a mass that you would call cancer.
Ask us more questions on this, for we could talk for a long time and we may not give you the answer you are looking for.
GUIDES: Fiona, have you enjoyed this process so far?
FIONA: YES
GUIDES: Have you felt the effects of working with our words?
FIONA: YES, I HAVE. IT HAS MADE ME FEEL GOOD.
GUIDES: This is good. This is what we are looking for through this project, the information but also the knowledge of no separation between you in your form and us in our form. To an extent we are like a continuum and the support that can be received from us is great. We will help alleviate your symptoms for now. Understand that the body needs time to recharge. You have pushed yourself a little bit hence your virus.
Not all models see virus’s as necessary evils, some see them as good vehicles for cleansing, so choose to take your virus as a cleansing. We have enjoyed watching you work with this material and enjoyed feeling your feeling response. We are pleased with it and we wish to proceed. Do you have a question for us today?
FIONA: DOES ALL PHYSICAL ILLNESS START WITH NEGATIVE EMOTIONS?
This is a very good question. Yes and no. Yes, in terms of the body has become imbalanced and the body is geared up, as we have spoken before, to maintain levels of balance, therefore levels of health. However, sometimes spiritually there can be a misunderstanding. There can be a time, a lesson that can be learned in a specific moment and one of the ways to stop physical life is with an illness. We have situations where someone can be wishing a situation to happen that we might call a spiritual matter; such as, time for themselves, opportunities to become happier. The way they choose to give this to themselves is through the vehicle of illness. This is not necessarily caused by negative emotions; this is caused by a willingness to take a jump to the next sphere or phase of being. Therefore, it can become an opportunity to stop, assess and move forward. You have experienced this at times, many alive have experienced this, and Zoë has experienced this. So illness is not always brought on through negative states. It can be brought on to bring forward a positive state.
This is what we hope this information will provide. It will provide people with information. Understand that, for as long as you are alive, wake up to living. Give yourself what you need and perhaps you can come back to life fully without your diagnosis. Of course this is only a partial truth, for all of you will come and meet your spiritual friends after a time.
So, it would be better to state that negative emotions cause difficulties for the body to recover from. They make the system heavy, they can change the physiological functioning’s of the body and over time this can create difficulties for the body in maintaining health. Work has been done to show that specific negative emotions over time can lead to specific illnesses. This gives you an indication of the effect of negative thinking on your body. All of you, however, understand that you just need to have a bad day and see how your body feels to see the effects of mind on the body.
Similarly, you just need to hear good news to understand the effects on the body; for it is often expressed through physical exhilaration such as a hop and a skip. From a perspective of illness, where does illness arise? We have been asked the question before. Does illness arise from a breakdown between spirit and individual? This is far broader and, therefore, more correct than, “Does all illness arise from negative emotions?” For illness can arise as a gift to self. Does this make sense?
Let us take this a little bit further and say that: if you simply wake up to life and wake up to your needs and give yourself those, you will not need illness as a vehicle, even for soul progression. Let us take your question.
FIONA: YOU MENTIONED THAT SPECIFIC EMOTIONS CAN LEAD TO ILLNESS. WHAT IS, IN PARTICULAR, THE ROLE OF FEAR?
GUIDES: Fear! Oh! Fear and cancer. Fear of living. What is it like to be fearful and living? What are its consequences? The irony is that for many people they are fearful of living. The consequence to life is death yet most people who are fearful of living are actually fearful of death.
The misunderstanding is that there are levels of death. The physical death that you all will experience and that many of you are fearful of, we prefer to call exiting, as we have explained before. But fear of death can be fear of death of form, of status, of job, of partner, of wealth, of funding, of size, we could go on. This fear of death of form in the physical world leads to a fear of life. We know this is a pertinent question for you, Fiona. But it is also a question that everyone who is given the diagnosis of cancer should ask themselves. For being fearful of life opens up the connection to exit.
So, what is being fearful of forms of life? It is simply an expression of being devoid of an authentic connection to self. For if you are fearful of losing something which is outside of yourself e.g. many people of fearful of losing their homes, their jobs. What happens if someone does lose their home? The mind equates this loss with death yet the body will not die. The mind equates this fear of losing career with death yet the body will not die. However, a connection is opened up for effectively it is what you are choosing. Put enough fears together and you will affect your functioning. The body will become heightened, unable to relax, unable to have pleasure for itself. When this happens, over time the body will become tired. Whilst this is an experience that the body can have, it is meant for short periods of time only.
This is why we say that the way that you live now, many of you, as a species, is different from the way you were designed to be. Many take that to understand that their diet is different or that they put sprays or pharmaceuticals into their bodies. But really the body is designed to be healthy and relaxed; healthy in relaxation, healthy in its ability to process substances that are not entirely healthful. You weren’t also meant to eat stone, yet your ancestors did it. There are many cases of what has been consumed in the past or the present that the body was not designed for yet the body copes marvellously.
It is a matter of the body in heightened states for periods of time that is was not designed for, therefore it is unable to return to its balance. This is what perpetual states of fear produce within the body. The states start off as more minor imbalances; more minor in that they may affect the digestive organs, they may affect the skin, certainly the cognitive functioning and the ability to hold focus. It takes a lot to manifest a mass that you would call cancer.
Ask us more questions on this, for we could talk for a long time and we may not give you the answer you are looking for.
Tuesday, 1 December 2009
2: Maintaining the connection to life
Inreoduction by Fiona: This is part two of the initial conversation I had with the guides. It is a continuation of the themes in blog 1.
GUIDES: Fiona, do you wish to ask us questions on this, for we understand this is controversial in meaning for most?
FIONA:YES, WHAT DETERMINES WHETHER A PERSON DECIDES TO LEAVE THROUGH BODY OR HEAD?
GUIDES: The wiring, that which is most bearable to endure. You tend to find that there are those that would prefer one over the other. This is interesting. We would rather all of you, as a species, preferred living whilst you are living and understood that death is merely a passing. But this is not the current psyche, for most, at present.
FIONA: WHAT DETERMINES SOMEONES WIRING?
GUIDES: Their progression on an eternal level plus how that interacts with the accumulation of their choices on earth. You see, this can be turned around. This is the work that people like you seek to do. This work only starts with a diagnosis. So, the diagnosis becomes a scary friend for some and a very real and believable exit clause for others.
FIONA: WHAT DETERMINES WHICH PEOPLE TRY TO REWIRE AND GET THROUGH THIS VERSUS PEOPLE THAT DIE FROM CANCER, EVEN THOUGH THEY MAY HAVED TRIED LOTS OF PRACTICAL TOOLS TO GET THEIR BODIES WELL AGAIN?
GUIDES: There are many factors in this. And there will those who wish this answer to be given so that it applies for them individually. This may not apply to those who believe they are doing it for this is a twofold reality. There are those who the exit clause is a stronger pull than the living clause. You see, understand that when the body has manifested its first defence against living there is a strength of connection towards the exit, so the strength of connection towards living needs to at least match that. This can be determined by, in some cases, the progression of the illness. For some it is a train that cannot be stopped and, they blame the body, they blame the medication but really the connection to the exit is too strong. For many of these people, those are the people who simply accept the situation and understand that the end is nigh.
For others, the change in the body, the diagnosis, the connection to the exit is enough for ‘a wake up’, an opportunity to have a personal revolution and for some this will mean that conventional treatment will be effective, for the ‘wake up’ has occurred and the connection to life has been re-established. These people, these individuals may in their choices choose other means too, alternative means, natural means. The means of recovery is not what is important; it is the strength of connection to living and to exiting.
Now let us clarify something: you are eternal, so your strength to exiting is not what you experience on the initial fear of diagnosis. It is not a bad thing. Yet when faced with it in a human way it feels like a very bad thing. There is often so much left to do, to be said. So, the strength of connection to exit is different from how it is perceived by you when you are held in a fearful state over exiting.
Are we making this clear, Fiona?
FIONA: YES
GUIDES: For us, there is no better way for you to be. For us, cancer is simply a mechanism within the body that provides one with an exit clause within life. It does not exist in spirit. Its equivalent would be birth!
Let us recap that: the strength of connection to life or to exiting is crucial. There is an expectation on diagnosis that one must fight that one must do all one can to get over this horrible illness. But the destination of this horrible illness is one that all of you will meet. We are not bad over here; you know that, you’ve all been here.
FIONA: WE ARE ETERNAL BEINGS, SO WHY, IN A HUMAN FORM, DO SO MANY PEOPLE HAVE A FEAR OF EXITING?? IT IS NOT REALLY EXITING AS WE ARE SPITRITUAL BEINGS ALREADY.
GUIDES: For most of you, you are devoid of your reality. This is why cancer is the, or one of the, scariest illnesses you can manifest within the body, be diagnosed with. There are others too, such as AIDS that have equal levels of horror on diagnosis. You are eternal and your life here is temporary and it is as if you never realised that when a diagnosis is given. So there is a forgetting of your eternal spiritual nature and often a diagnosis such as cancer gives you an opportunity to remember that this is only partly real or rather real for a short period of time.
The response to certain illnesses can be devastating and it is as if you forget that you all must exit. In times gone by, and for a few who currently live amongst you, there was the understanding that you were born, you would have opportunities, and then you would die. You have a saying: “death and taxes”.
We wish you to understand that cancer seems to hit hardest those of you who are devoid of the reality of life which is birth, living and death. And this is important, for it is usually those who have become lost in life i.e. they live in their heads, that can be hit with cancer.
Your question, Fiona?
FIONA: SOME PEOPLE WHO GET BETTER FROM CANCER, SEEM, AT LEAST OUTWARDLY TO HAVE NOT CHANGED THEIR VIEW OF CONNECTEDNESS TO SPIRIT?
GUIDES: Yes, but they have chosen a connection to life. They have turned around a connection. We would prefer to use “exit” rather than “death”, for there is no death, there’s only death of a temporary form, so we will continue to use “exit”. Those that you mention now have chosen a greater connection to life than they have to exit and this does not need fairy dust. This can for some, depending on the strength of the connection, be enough to turn a body around, but understand that the body can be tired if choices have been made that have consistently deafened, muted and sickened the body. Lots of you think that your body has hurt you, your body has abandoned you, some of you may think that spirit has hurt you, spirit has abandoned you. There can be no abandoning from spirit; we are always right beside you and we are at the end of every exit.
Bodies, however, can get tired. So, the real question is for all of you....This is not simply just a matter for those of you who have been diagnosed with this illness but for all of you as a species. Will you, in life, wake up to yourself?
This does not mean waking up to spirit in life- being devoid of the body is as much a form of punishment as over eating and over drinking. Waking up to yourself in life means honouring the form you have. Honouring the wishes and desires that are truly yours, not your parents, not society’s not your peer groups. Will you allow yourself to live whilst alive? Or will you remove yourself from your reality and create a life that has no nourishment for you in it. This is a punishment for the body and the body will simply respond with consequence. For you, through your choices, may make it impossible for the body to restore its balance. You may switch off, without realising it, the bodies homeostasis.
Fiona, this is all for today. We wish you to keep your questions and refine them with the information we have given you. You are absolutely on track with this and we understand that this will help you as you bring this information through for others. We know the light bulb has already gone off for you and this is our desire for you: to be the body for us, for this. So as your body provides you with a vehicle to exist whilst here on earth, please provide us with an opportunity to provide these messages here on earth. Goodbye
GUIDES: Fiona, do you wish to ask us questions on this, for we understand this is controversial in meaning for most?
FIONA:YES, WHAT DETERMINES WHETHER A PERSON DECIDES TO LEAVE THROUGH BODY OR HEAD?
GUIDES: The wiring, that which is most bearable to endure. You tend to find that there are those that would prefer one over the other. This is interesting. We would rather all of you, as a species, preferred living whilst you are living and understood that death is merely a passing. But this is not the current psyche, for most, at present.
FIONA: WHAT DETERMINES SOMEONES WIRING?
GUIDES: Their progression on an eternal level plus how that interacts with the accumulation of their choices on earth. You see, this can be turned around. This is the work that people like you seek to do. This work only starts with a diagnosis. So, the diagnosis becomes a scary friend for some and a very real and believable exit clause for others.
FIONA: WHAT DETERMINES WHICH PEOPLE TRY TO REWIRE AND GET THROUGH THIS VERSUS PEOPLE THAT DIE FROM CANCER, EVEN THOUGH THEY MAY HAVED TRIED LOTS OF PRACTICAL TOOLS TO GET THEIR BODIES WELL AGAIN?
GUIDES: There are many factors in this. And there will those who wish this answer to be given so that it applies for them individually. This may not apply to those who believe they are doing it for this is a twofold reality. There are those who the exit clause is a stronger pull than the living clause. You see, understand that when the body has manifested its first defence against living there is a strength of connection towards the exit, so the strength of connection towards living needs to at least match that. This can be determined by, in some cases, the progression of the illness. For some it is a train that cannot be stopped and, they blame the body, they blame the medication but really the connection to the exit is too strong. For many of these people, those are the people who simply accept the situation and understand that the end is nigh.
For others, the change in the body, the diagnosis, the connection to the exit is enough for ‘a wake up’, an opportunity to have a personal revolution and for some this will mean that conventional treatment will be effective, for the ‘wake up’ has occurred and the connection to life has been re-established. These people, these individuals may in their choices choose other means too, alternative means, natural means. The means of recovery is not what is important; it is the strength of connection to living and to exiting.
Now let us clarify something: you are eternal, so your strength to exiting is not what you experience on the initial fear of diagnosis. It is not a bad thing. Yet when faced with it in a human way it feels like a very bad thing. There is often so much left to do, to be said. So, the strength of connection to exit is different from how it is perceived by you when you are held in a fearful state over exiting.
Are we making this clear, Fiona?
FIONA: YES
GUIDES: For us, there is no better way for you to be. For us, cancer is simply a mechanism within the body that provides one with an exit clause within life. It does not exist in spirit. Its equivalent would be birth!
Let us recap that: the strength of connection to life or to exiting is crucial. There is an expectation on diagnosis that one must fight that one must do all one can to get over this horrible illness. But the destination of this horrible illness is one that all of you will meet. We are not bad over here; you know that, you’ve all been here.
FIONA: WE ARE ETERNAL BEINGS, SO WHY, IN A HUMAN FORM, DO SO MANY PEOPLE HAVE A FEAR OF EXITING?? IT IS NOT REALLY EXITING AS WE ARE SPITRITUAL BEINGS ALREADY.
GUIDES: For most of you, you are devoid of your reality. This is why cancer is the, or one of the, scariest illnesses you can manifest within the body, be diagnosed with. There are others too, such as AIDS that have equal levels of horror on diagnosis. You are eternal and your life here is temporary and it is as if you never realised that when a diagnosis is given. So there is a forgetting of your eternal spiritual nature and often a diagnosis such as cancer gives you an opportunity to remember that this is only partly real or rather real for a short period of time.
The response to certain illnesses can be devastating and it is as if you forget that you all must exit. In times gone by, and for a few who currently live amongst you, there was the understanding that you were born, you would have opportunities, and then you would die. You have a saying: “death and taxes”.
We wish you to understand that cancer seems to hit hardest those of you who are devoid of the reality of life which is birth, living and death. And this is important, for it is usually those who have become lost in life i.e. they live in their heads, that can be hit with cancer.
Your question, Fiona?
FIONA: SOME PEOPLE WHO GET BETTER FROM CANCER, SEEM, AT LEAST OUTWARDLY TO HAVE NOT CHANGED THEIR VIEW OF CONNECTEDNESS TO SPIRIT?
GUIDES: Yes, but they have chosen a connection to life. They have turned around a connection. We would prefer to use “exit” rather than “death”, for there is no death, there’s only death of a temporary form, so we will continue to use “exit”. Those that you mention now have chosen a greater connection to life than they have to exit and this does not need fairy dust. This can for some, depending on the strength of the connection, be enough to turn a body around, but understand that the body can be tired if choices have been made that have consistently deafened, muted and sickened the body. Lots of you think that your body has hurt you, your body has abandoned you, some of you may think that spirit has hurt you, spirit has abandoned you. There can be no abandoning from spirit; we are always right beside you and we are at the end of every exit.
Bodies, however, can get tired. So, the real question is for all of you....This is not simply just a matter for those of you who have been diagnosed with this illness but for all of you as a species. Will you, in life, wake up to yourself?
This does not mean waking up to spirit in life- being devoid of the body is as much a form of punishment as over eating and over drinking. Waking up to yourself in life means honouring the form you have. Honouring the wishes and desires that are truly yours, not your parents, not society’s not your peer groups. Will you allow yourself to live whilst alive? Or will you remove yourself from your reality and create a life that has no nourishment for you in it. This is a punishment for the body and the body will simply respond with consequence. For you, through your choices, may make it impossible for the body to restore its balance. You may switch off, without realising it, the bodies homeostasis.
Fiona, this is all for today. We wish you to keep your questions and refine them with the information we have given you. You are absolutely on track with this and we understand that this will help you as you bring this information through for others. We know the light bulb has already gone off for you and this is our desire for you: to be the body for us, for this. So as your body provides you with a vehicle to exist whilst here on earth, please provide us with an opportunity to provide these messages here on earth. Goodbye
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