Showing posts with label negative emotions. Show all posts
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Thursday, 20 June 2013
22: Causes of cancer: enviromental or emotional?
FIONA HERE: this dialogue was recorded over a year ago before I was diagnosed with the recurrence of cancer from which I am currently healing. I think it is very useful for all sorts of situations and a very good reminder for me.
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FIONA: I am thinking about the causes of cancer. Some say it is caused by toxic emotions; others that it is caused by environment toxins. Can you shed any light on this?
GUIDES: Yes. We take you back to what we initially said on this subject. Cancer is one of the ways the body will choose as a means to exit life. When you are looking to exit life the body will begin to accumulate matter in the body as the system becomes sluggish towards life in general. Think about it. You move less when you are unhappy and your thoughts become far more polluted in their nature. The mechanisms for exit can be physical in nature. But by the time they become physical in nature, such as the body has manifested a mass or masses, which can be diagnosed as cancer, there has been a great build up to this point. Although it seems to those of you diagnosed it has been overnight, there has been a build up towards this.
Now all of you are right in thinking that it is a genetic issue, and that it is a mental issue, and that it is a toxic issue. The mechanism that causes the manifestation of disease in the individual is individual. But what must be noticed is the commonality with all of you that end up with a diagnosis of cancer, is that there has been an activation of the desire to exit life. For most of you this will have been on an unconscious, subconscious level. You will probably not have realised you are doing this so you must look to reclaim your joire de vivre. This is the most important message we can ever give you .You understand this, Fiona. This becomes difficult for you when you see it manifesting in other ways in other people.
You have been to the point where you are considering your own mortality and you know how it feels. You know how it feels to try and get a sense of self and a sense of living back. It is hard. It is much easier to become more full of life without a diagnosis of cancer than it is with one. However, should you wish to remain healthy and you have the strength to do so, engage with life.
How do you do this? This is individual to each of you. It will be important that all of you think about what you need to do for your healing. If your body has a level of toxicity or pollutants in it, then cleanse it. But do this lovingly- not aggressively- for cleansing the body aggressively simply adds more of the wrong input into the system.
What do we mean? It is simply another thing about how bad my life is. We would rather you ate a chocolate bar at this point, if that is what would make you happier. All of you who are willing to do so, please take a look at the contents of your thoughts. You are not taught to think about your thoughts. You are not taught that you are a creator of your thoughts. Instead you are left with a mind that talks and many of you for want of a better word or phrase aren’t aware of the direction you are driving yourself. So when you come to a stop such as a diagnosis of cancer, and you do not wish for your life to end, it is time to turn around.
Tuesday, 1 June 2010
6: Your body did not do this to you
Background to call: Fiona is feeling ill
FIONA: WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO START TO TRUST YOUR BODY AGAIN AFTER A DIAGNOSIS OF CANCER? MANY PEOPLE FEEL THEY CANNOT TRUST THEIR BODIES. THEY FEEL THEY HAVE NO CONTROL OVER THEIR BODIES AND HAVE BEEN BETRAYED BY THEIR BODIES.
GUIDES: Yes, this is a very relevant question.
It is often the case that their body has done this to them. Their body has taken away life from them. What they fail to understand is that they had taken away life from themselves and the body simply responded.
Understand, all of you who are living with the name cancer or who are waiting for a period of time to pass until you don’t need to use it anymore. Understand that the body did not let you down; neither did you deliberately chose cancer.
Sometimes within the alternative movement you are told that, “you created it yourself”. Whilst your body responded to your relationship with your life, we are not sure if we have ever experienced an individual who sat down and deliberately manifested cancer cells to overrun their immune system and create a mass. So understand that the body didn’t let you down. There was something happening in your life to the point of diagnosis and perhaps to this point today, that opened up the mechanism for exit.
With this knowledge understand that you can now support your body, for it is only your body that can rid itself of this. It may be able to do so if it not too far down the track to the connection with exit. How far down are you on that connection to exit? Only you can know that. Your Drs may give you insight based on what they have seen with other people but only you can know how alive you are. Even if you are feeling alive the connection to exit may still be in place for you for it has been firmly established and cannot be overwritten. But until you know that, live and enjoy life.
Your body did not do this to you and you did not do this to your body with deliberate intention. However, the manifestation to the exit did occur. This usually happens for there has been a lack of connection to life. Very occasionally the connection to exit can occur because spiritually your time has come. A time will come for all of you. We hope this work survives its co-creators but it will come for them too.
We certainly do not do this to your bodies. Sometimes you blame God: “God did this to me”. Or, God is a real “bleep” because he won’t take this away. Or, where are my angels now that I am dying? Your angels now are always with you, including when you are dying.
So, understand that the body requires care and attention. The more fearful you are of the body, the more we urge you to love your body; the more you continue to fear and resent your body, the more you will disconnect from the reality of life which is - you are alive within your body. Do whatever it takes for you to begin to love your body again and by this we do not mean lose weight or gain weight. We mean love. It is not about the form of the body or what the form represents to those around you or what you believe the form means because of standards that others, including your society. Love yourself for who you are. Care for your body. The more you are fearful, the more you must work at this. The greater the journey will be for you to love yourself once more.
You cannot heal and disrespect your body at the same time. Healing must come via the physical. It can be positively influenced via the mind and via the spirit but its mechanisms must work via the cellular functioning’s of the body. You cannot do this by hating and resenting your body. So, your body did something that you didn’t consciously wish it to do; it is still giving you an opportunity to wake up. So, wake up and begin loving your body. Whatever this means. We have seen that for many this means taking up forms of dance, forms of creative expression via the body and we support this. We would also see a greater appreciation for the role of sexuality in your body. Genuine, authentic, feel good sexuality in your body.
What this is not to be is a drive to force the body back to health, devoid of love, such as we see. We see this on juice diets. “This will make you healthy, body; I don’t care if you don’t like it, body (i.e. it doesn’t taste good), you‘re having it”. That is not love. Nurture and nourish your body, with love. This is more powerful than any antioxidant you can put into your system. Understand this. Ideally, do both. When the body is in a state that has formed a mass, it is out of balance. Do what you have to do to bring it back into balance, with love. The prescription is love at the top and juice diets at the bottom, if at all.
Have we answered your question?
FIONA: YES, THANK YOU. I AM NOT GOING TO ASK ANYMORE QUESTIONS TODAY AS WE HAVE COVERED A LOT.
GUIDES: Yes, we agree. Your system has had enough. Recognise that you will be tired today, Fiona, for your system is out of balance and has been exposed to us!
FIONA: WHAT SHOULD I DO TO BRING IT BACK INTO BALANCE?
GUIDES: Rest, all you need is rest. You have been exerting yourself physically more than you are capable of doing. Do not allow the mind to do more than the body is able to handle.
You understand this? We will speak about this next time, this is very important. This is why many of you manifest a mechanism to exit. The body becomes so disengaged from the desires and the driving force of the mind. So learn the lesson with the virus and who knows maybe the cells with the “c” word will take care of themselves.
FIONA: IS THAT SUPPOSED TO TELL ME THAT I STILL HAVE NAUGHTY CELLS IN MY BODY?!
GUIDES: No, we are laughing at this. We knew this came next. It is our joke. You always have cells of these in the body.
FIONA: THAT IS TRUE
GUIDES: Use this part of the conversation on the blog. We leave you now. Goodbye and thank you.
FIONA: SEE YOU NEXT TIME
GUIDES: Yes, we won’t go anywhere.
FIONA: WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO START TO TRUST YOUR BODY AGAIN AFTER A DIAGNOSIS OF CANCER? MANY PEOPLE FEEL THEY CANNOT TRUST THEIR BODIES. THEY FEEL THEY HAVE NO CONTROL OVER THEIR BODIES AND HAVE BEEN BETRAYED BY THEIR BODIES.
GUIDES: Yes, this is a very relevant question.
It is often the case that their body has done this to them. Their body has taken away life from them. What they fail to understand is that they had taken away life from themselves and the body simply responded.
Understand, all of you who are living with the name cancer or who are waiting for a period of time to pass until you don’t need to use it anymore. Understand that the body did not let you down; neither did you deliberately chose cancer.
Sometimes within the alternative movement you are told that, “you created it yourself”. Whilst your body responded to your relationship with your life, we are not sure if we have ever experienced an individual who sat down and deliberately manifested cancer cells to overrun their immune system and create a mass. So understand that the body didn’t let you down. There was something happening in your life to the point of diagnosis and perhaps to this point today, that opened up the mechanism for exit.
With this knowledge understand that you can now support your body, for it is only your body that can rid itself of this. It may be able to do so if it not too far down the track to the connection with exit. How far down are you on that connection to exit? Only you can know that. Your Drs may give you insight based on what they have seen with other people but only you can know how alive you are. Even if you are feeling alive the connection to exit may still be in place for you for it has been firmly established and cannot be overwritten. But until you know that, live and enjoy life.
Your body did not do this to you and you did not do this to your body with deliberate intention. However, the manifestation to the exit did occur. This usually happens for there has been a lack of connection to life. Very occasionally the connection to exit can occur because spiritually your time has come. A time will come for all of you. We hope this work survives its co-creators but it will come for them too.
We certainly do not do this to your bodies. Sometimes you blame God: “God did this to me”. Or, God is a real “bleep” because he won’t take this away. Or, where are my angels now that I am dying? Your angels now are always with you, including when you are dying.
So, understand that the body requires care and attention. The more fearful you are of the body, the more we urge you to love your body; the more you continue to fear and resent your body, the more you will disconnect from the reality of life which is - you are alive within your body. Do whatever it takes for you to begin to love your body again and by this we do not mean lose weight or gain weight. We mean love. It is not about the form of the body or what the form represents to those around you or what you believe the form means because of standards that others, including your society. Love yourself for who you are. Care for your body. The more you are fearful, the more you must work at this. The greater the journey will be for you to love yourself once more.
You cannot heal and disrespect your body at the same time. Healing must come via the physical. It can be positively influenced via the mind and via the spirit but its mechanisms must work via the cellular functioning’s of the body. You cannot do this by hating and resenting your body. So, your body did something that you didn’t consciously wish it to do; it is still giving you an opportunity to wake up. So, wake up and begin loving your body. Whatever this means. We have seen that for many this means taking up forms of dance, forms of creative expression via the body and we support this. We would also see a greater appreciation for the role of sexuality in your body. Genuine, authentic, feel good sexuality in your body.
What this is not to be is a drive to force the body back to health, devoid of love, such as we see. We see this on juice diets. “This will make you healthy, body; I don’t care if you don’t like it, body (i.e. it doesn’t taste good), you‘re having it”. That is not love. Nurture and nourish your body, with love. This is more powerful than any antioxidant you can put into your system. Understand this. Ideally, do both. When the body is in a state that has formed a mass, it is out of balance. Do what you have to do to bring it back into balance, with love. The prescription is love at the top and juice diets at the bottom, if at all.
Have we answered your question?
FIONA: YES, THANK YOU. I AM NOT GOING TO ASK ANYMORE QUESTIONS TODAY AS WE HAVE COVERED A LOT.
GUIDES: Yes, we agree. Your system has had enough. Recognise that you will be tired today, Fiona, for your system is out of balance and has been exposed to us!
FIONA: WHAT SHOULD I DO TO BRING IT BACK INTO BALANCE?
GUIDES: Rest, all you need is rest. You have been exerting yourself physically more than you are capable of doing. Do not allow the mind to do more than the body is able to handle.
You understand this? We will speak about this next time, this is very important. This is why many of you manifest a mechanism to exit. The body becomes so disengaged from the desires and the driving force of the mind. So learn the lesson with the virus and who knows maybe the cells with the “c” word will take care of themselves.
FIONA: IS THAT SUPPOSED TO TELL ME THAT I STILL HAVE NAUGHTY CELLS IN MY BODY?!
GUIDES: No, we are laughing at this. We knew this came next. It is our joke. You always have cells of these in the body.
FIONA: THAT IS TRUE
GUIDES: Use this part of the conversation on the blog. We leave you now. Goodbye and thank you.
FIONA: SEE YOU NEXT TIME
GUIDES: Yes, we won’t go anywhere.
Monday, 14 December 2009
3: Negative emotions and fear
Background to the call: Fiona has bad cough and is feeling congested in the chest.
GUIDES: Fiona, have you enjoyed this process so far?
FIONA: YES
GUIDES: Have you felt the effects of working with our words?
FIONA: YES, I HAVE. IT HAS MADE ME FEEL GOOD.
GUIDES: This is good. This is what we are looking for through this project, the information but also the knowledge of no separation between you in your form and us in our form. To an extent we are like a continuum and the support that can be received from us is great. We will help alleviate your symptoms for now. Understand that the body needs time to recharge. You have pushed yourself a little bit hence your virus.
Not all models see virus’s as necessary evils, some see them as good vehicles for cleansing, so choose to take your virus as a cleansing. We have enjoyed watching you work with this material and enjoyed feeling your feeling response. We are pleased with it and we wish to proceed. Do you have a question for us today?
FIONA: DOES ALL PHYSICAL ILLNESS START WITH NEGATIVE EMOTIONS?
This is a very good question. Yes and no. Yes, in terms of the body has become imbalanced and the body is geared up, as we have spoken before, to maintain levels of balance, therefore levels of health. However, sometimes spiritually there can be a misunderstanding. There can be a time, a lesson that can be learned in a specific moment and one of the ways to stop physical life is with an illness. We have situations where someone can be wishing a situation to happen that we might call a spiritual matter; such as, time for themselves, opportunities to become happier. The way they choose to give this to themselves is through the vehicle of illness. This is not necessarily caused by negative emotions; this is caused by a willingness to take a jump to the next sphere or phase of being. Therefore, it can become an opportunity to stop, assess and move forward. You have experienced this at times, many alive have experienced this, and Zoë has experienced this. So illness is not always brought on through negative states. It can be brought on to bring forward a positive state.
This is what we hope this information will provide. It will provide people with information. Understand that, for as long as you are alive, wake up to living. Give yourself what you need and perhaps you can come back to life fully without your diagnosis. Of course this is only a partial truth, for all of you will come and meet your spiritual friends after a time.
So, it would be better to state that negative emotions cause difficulties for the body to recover from. They make the system heavy, they can change the physiological functioning’s of the body and over time this can create difficulties for the body in maintaining health. Work has been done to show that specific negative emotions over time can lead to specific illnesses. This gives you an indication of the effect of negative thinking on your body. All of you, however, understand that you just need to have a bad day and see how your body feels to see the effects of mind on the body.
Similarly, you just need to hear good news to understand the effects on the body; for it is often expressed through physical exhilaration such as a hop and a skip. From a perspective of illness, where does illness arise? We have been asked the question before. Does illness arise from a breakdown between spirit and individual? This is far broader and, therefore, more correct than, “Does all illness arise from negative emotions?” For illness can arise as a gift to self. Does this make sense?
Let us take this a little bit further and say that: if you simply wake up to life and wake up to your needs and give yourself those, you will not need illness as a vehicle, even for soul progression. Let us take your question.
FIONA: YOU MENTIONED THAT SPECIFIC EMOTIONS CAN LEAD TO ILLNESS. WHAT IS, IN PARTICULAR, THE ROLE OF FEAR?
GUIDES: Fear! Oh! Fear and cancer. Fear of living. What is it like to be fearful and living? What are its consequences? The irony is that for many people they are fearful of living. The consequence to life is death yet most people who are fearful of living are actually fearful of death.
The misunderstanding is that there are levels of death. The physical death that you all will experience and that many of you are fearful of, we prefer to call exiting, as we have explained before. But fear of death can be fear of death of form, of status, of job, of partner, of wealth, of funding, of size, we could go on. This fear of death of form in the physical world leads to a fear of life. We know this is a pertinent question for you, Fiona. But it is also a question that everyone who is given the diagnosis of cancer should ask themselves. For being fearful of life opens up the connection to exit.
So, what is being fearful of forms of life? It is simply an expression of being devoid of an authentic connection to self. For if you are fearful of losing something which is outside of yourself e.g. many people of fearful of losing their homes, their jobs. What happens if someone does lose their home? The mind equates this loss with death yet the body will not die. The mind equates this fear of losing career with death yet the body will not die. However, a connection is opened up for effectively it is what you are choosing. Put enough fears together and you will affect your functioning. The body will become heightened, unable to relax, unable to have pleasure for itself. When this happens, over time the body will become tired. Whilst this is an experience that the body can have, it is meant for short periods of time only.
This is why we say that the way that you live now, many of you, as a species, is different from the way you were designed to be. Many take that to understand that their diet is different or that they put sprays or pharmaceuticals into their bodies. But really the body is designed to be healthy and relaxed; healthy in relaxation, healthy in its ability to process substances that are not entirely healthful. You weren’t also meant to eat stone, yet your ancestors did it. There are many cases of what has been consumed in the past or the present that the body was not designed for yet the body copes marvellously.
It is a matter of the body in heightened states for periods of time that is was not designed for, therefore it is unable to return to its balance. This is what perpetual states of fear produce within the body. The states start off as more minor imbalances; more minor in that they may affect the digestive organs, they may affect the skin, certainly the cognitive functioning and the ability to hold focus. It takes a lot to manifest a mass that you would call cancer.
Ask us more questions on this, for we could talk for a long time and we may not give you the answer you are looking for.
GUIDES: Fiona, have you enjoyed this process so far?
FIONA: YES
GUIDES: Have you felt the effects of working with our words?
FIONA: YES, I HAVE. IT HAS MADE ME FEEL GOOD.
GUIDES: This is good. This is what we are looking for through this project, the information but also the knowledge of no separation between you in your form and us in our form. To an extent we are like a continuum and the support that can be received from us is great. We will help alleviate your symptoms for now. Understand that the body needs time to recharge. You have pushed yourself a little bit hence your virus.
Not all models see virus’s as necessary evils, some see them as good vehicles for cleansing, so choose to take your virus as a cleansing. We have enjoyed watching you work with this material and enjoyed feeling your feeling response. We are pleased with it and we wish to proceed. Do you have a question for us today?
FIONA: DOES ALL PHYSICAL ILLNESS START WITH NEGATIVE EMOTIONS?
This is a very good question. Yes and no. Yes, in terms of the body has become imbalanced and the body is geared up, as we have spoken before, to maintain levels of balance, therefore levels of health. However, sometimes spiritually there can be a misunderstanding. There can be a time, a lesson that can be learned in a specific moment and one of the ways to stop physical life is with an illness. We have situations where someone can be wishing a situation to happen that we might call a spiritual matter; such as, time for themselves, opportunities to become happier. The way they choose to give this to themselves is through the vehicle of illness. This is not necessarily caused by negative emotions; this is caused by a willingness to take a jump to the next sphere or phase of being. Therefore, it can become an opportunity to stop, assess and move forward. You have experienced this at times, many alive have experienced this, and Zoë has experienced this. So illness is not always brought on through negative states. It can be brought on to bring forward a positive state.
This is what we hope this information will provide. It will provide people with information. Understand that, for as long as you are alive, wake up to living. Give yourself what you need and perhaps you can come back to life fully without your diagnosis. Of course this is only a partial truth, for all of you will come and meet your spiritual friends after a time.
So, it would be better to state that negative emotions cause difficulties for the body to recover from. They make the system heavy, they can change the physiological functioning’s of the body and over time this can create difficulties for the body in maintaining health. Work has been done to show that specific negative emotions over time can lead to specific illnesses. This gives you an indication of the effect of negative thinking on your body. All of you, however, understand that you just need to have a bad day and see how your body feels to see the effects of mind on the body.
Similarly, you just need to hear good news to understand the effects on the body; for it is often expressed through physical exhilaration such as a hop and a skip. From a perspective of illness, where does illness arise? We have been asked the question before. Does illness arise from a breakdown between spirit and individual? This is far broader and, therefore, more correct than, “Does all illness arise from negative emotions?” For illness can arise as a gift to self. Does this make sense?
Let us take this a little bit further and say that: if you simply wake up to life and wake up to your needs and give yourself those, you will not need illness as a vehicle, even for soul progression. Let us take your question.
FIONA: YOU MENTIONED THAT SPECIFIC EMOTIONS CAN LEAD TO ILLNESS. WHAT IS, IN PARTICULAR, THE ROLE OF FEAR?
GUIDES: Fear! Oh! Fear and cancer. Fear of living. What is it like to be fearful and living? What are its consequences? The irony is that for many people they are fearful of living. The consequence to life is death yet most people who are fearful of living are actually fearful of death.
The misunderstanding is that there are levels of death. The physical death that you all will experience and that many of you are fearful of, we prefer to call exiting, as we have explained before. But fear of death can be fear of death of form, of status, of job, of partner, of wealth, of funding, of size, we could go on. This fear of death of form in the physical world leads to a fear of life. We know this is a pertinent question for you, Fiona. But it is also a question that everyone who is given the diagnosis of cancer should ask themselves. For being fearful of life opens up the connection to exit.
So, what is being fearful of forms of life? It is simply an expression of being devoid of an authentic connection to self. For if you are fearful of losing something which is outside of yourself e.g. many people of fearful of losing their homes, their jobs. What happens if someone does lose their home? The mind equates this loss with death yet the body will not die. The mind equates this fear of losing career with death yet the body will not die. However, a connection is opened up for effectively it is what you are choosing. Put enough fears together and you will affect your functioning. The body will become heightened, unable to relax, unable to have pleasure for itself. When this happens, over time the body will become tired. Whilst this is an experience that the body can have, it is meant for short periods of time only.
This is why we say that the way that you live now, many of you, as a species, is different from the way you were designed to be. Many take that to understand that their diet is different or that they put sprays or pharmaceuticals into their bodies. But really the body is designed to be healthy and relaxed; healthy in relaxation, healthy in its ability to process substances that are not entirely healthful. You weren’t also meant to eat stone, yet your ancestors did it. There are many cases of what has been consumed in the past or the present that the body was not designed for yet the body copes marvellously.
It is a matter of the body in heightened states for periods of time that is was not designed for, therefore it is unable to return to its balance. This is what perpetual states of fear produce within the body. The states start off as more minor imbalances; more minor in that they may affect the digestive organs, they may affect the skin, certainly the cognitive functioning and the ability to hold focus. It takes a lot to manifest a mass that you would call cancer.
Ask us more questions on this, for we could talk for a long time and we may not give you the answer you are looking for.
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